Sexcapades

I admit it-i'm a horny girl. I love to make out and i like to do it. So I'm pretty ok with making out with a cute boy even if i don't know him that well, but i've never been down with having sex with someone i don't really like. I didn't grow up thinking "I'm going to wait until I'm married" and it's not that i think it's disrepectful of your body or that being a whore is a bad thing at all-it's just not me. I'm scared of getting pregnant or getting a std-but all in all, i just don't feel comfortable with everyone.
Most people don't have a problem with this; most people would enjoy waiting for the priveledge (haha), but perhaps that is all coming to an end. Making out is no longer just making out. As i get older, do I have to become Carrie and Samantha and my city life of Ratface is really just about sex? Every date means another lay? My guy friends say, "Well that's what guys expect when you go home with them-sex." Is it no longer possible to just cuddle and kiss a guy? Do i really have to say to them all "We're not having sex-if that's what you want, go find yourself someone else"? I was under the impression more people were like myself, but I'll start changing that opinion and be prepared.